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“Benefits of Masturbation via @JerryLaVigneJr “
Another great video from the big homie Jerry Levinge Jr where he discusses the benefits of masturbation and how positive it truly can be to your health.
“10 Lessons about the Female Orgasm”
A friend of mine uploaded a very interesting article on facebok and i would be doing a disservice to each and everyone who follows my blog and vlogs if I did not share this brilliant information with each and every one of you. So please take a look at this information and put ti to good use people. Below is the information taken from Men’s Health magazine written by Debby Herbenick Ph D, so read and enjoy.
1. Take Her Off the Clock
Just as you’re concerned about la:sting longer, many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A recent brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman to orgasm.
So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not—the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reach orgasm. Going somewhere?
2. Turn Her On with Your Talent:
The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women’s biggest turnoffs.)
So nail “Paradise City” during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too.
3. When She’s Naked, Speak Up:
:Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely to orgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexual experience and are less sexually assertive.
Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news.
4. Always Be Tender Up Top:
During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You’ll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup.
5. Learn Her Key Strokes:
One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here’s how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.
6. Change Your Angle:
Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.
7. Use Moves that Multitask:
To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you’ll have with her most sensitive parts. Here’s one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration.
Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You’ll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she’ll receive focused attention where it often matters most.
8. Learn to Sense Her Orgasm:
Ease into oral sex—don’t just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques.
And watch for signs she’s close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.
9. Follow Her Lead:
Once you reach your point of no return, you’ll climax even if you’re interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the “off” switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it’s important to vary your technique, but once you’ve found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.
10. Let Her Finish First:
Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a “ladies-first” strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse.
Bonus: A woman’s orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it’s often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she’s already had one. How does that sound for an encore?
So there you have it people, 10 wonderful ways in which you can improve on your sex life and make women around the world VERY HAPPY. below is the link to the online article so you can check out the article in full detail.
http://www.menshealth.com/mhlists/understand_the_female_orgasm/
“Death due to neglect…American Health care”
so I came across a blog post about a woman named Anna Brown who died Monday March 26th in Missouri jail cell after St.Mary’s Hospital in Richmond heights Missouri refused her medical treatment after she came into the hospital complaining about excruciating ankle pain. It turns out that a sprained ankle Brown suffered weeks prior had actually caused blot clots in here legs which traveled through her body and eventually into her heart. Brown was arrested at St. Mary’s hospital after she refused to leave the hospital until someone gave her medical attention because she was ion so much pain that she could not stand and had forced her to be bound to a wheelchair. Police showed up at St. Mary’s hospital and arrested Brown on site and booked her on trespassing charges and drug brown from the squad car to her jail cell where she cried in pain as she died. Now to me this is beyond black vs white, this issue is about a color that is much more powerful…green. Brown was technically homeless as she was going through some life issues, and she was in a court battle to regain custody of her children, but as her records sated she was not a drug addict, she was simply stuck in a very tough financial and metal state. brown however was a medicare recipient but as we know in America that is simply not enough if you want a hospital to save your life. Once again America shows it’s true colors and reminds us that if you can’t afford health care…you’re probably going to die. This is a sad fact of living in this country and it is one that must change. Below is an article from a St. Louis newspaper fulling detailing the events of the case and the life history of Anna Brown so that you can get a complete image of the story and formulate your own opinion.
“3 Things I Learned today”
So I try to make it a point to learn as much as can everyday that I am alive, because I feel that learning & Curiosity are tools to expanding the human mind. So today here are 3 quick things that I have learned before 1:30pm.
Things I’ve Learned Today:
1. a 16yr old tried to car jack someone today, fired shots at the car and hit a 6yr old that was in the back seat.
2. Pink Slime which is a concoction of discarded meat and ammonia hydroxide is used in the VAST majority of processed beef(fast food & restaurants) in this country…EWWWWW
3. Processed Chickens in this country are treated in a bath of water and CHLORINE to chill and treat them before they are packaged and shipped and to mask the taste of chlorine they inject the chickens with salt water…UGGHHHH
Needless to say these things were shocking and I learned them all before 1:30 pm. The More you know.
“The 6 most Horrifying lies the food Industry is feeding you”
So I came across a link the other day while I was surfing the web and the title stood out to me the most, so i had to check it out, and what I found was shocking yet absolutely believable. The article described 6 different secrets that food industry really doesn’t want you to know. I always speak out against the food industry and how corrupt it really is so this article spoke to me directly. Here is the link to the article and TRUST ME, it is a must read. http://www.cracked.com/article_19433_the-6-most-horrifying-lies-food-industry-feeding-you.html?wa_user1=3&wa_user2=Science&wa_user3=article&wa_user4=trending_now
